Sep 2026

The Leadership Lens - Edition 15
Sharpen your view, elevate your impact—one edition at a time.

The Opportunity was Attractive. The Stakeholder Concerns were Real

During my years in manufacturing, a potential growth opportunity emerged in one of our process units.

The economics were compelling. The opportunity could create significant additional value with a capital investment that offered a payback of less than three months.

On paper, it looked like an easy decision.

Operationally, it wasn't.

Capturing the opportunity required the involvement and support of two other process units, each managed by a different plant manager.

For one unit, supporting the opportunity meant processing a raw material differently to produce the feed we needed. The plant manager had a legitimate concern: the proposed operation introduced additional process-safety considerations that needed to be carefully managed.

The second unit faced a very different challenge.

Some piping modifications would need to be incorporated into an upcoming shutdown. But the shutdown was only a couple of months away and the scope had already been frozen. Supporting our proposal meant introducing additional work at precisely the point when the team was trying to protect execution certainty.

So, while the business opportunity was attractive, each stakeholder was looking at it through a different lens.

One saw economic opportunity.

Another saw process-safety exposure.

Another saw shutdown execution risk.

And none of those perspectives was wrong.

My challenge wasn't simply to demonstrate that the project made financial sense. I needed to understand what mattered to each plant manager and address their concerns without losing sight of the larger opportunity.

I engaged them individually as well as collectively. We discussed the operational and financial merits, surfaced the concerns and incorporated appropriate safeguards and implementation considerations into the proposal.

Gradually, the conversation shifted.

It was no longer about one unit asking two other units to support its project.

It became a conversation about how we could collectively capture an enterprise opportunity while responsibly managing the risks each unit would inherit.

We eventually secured cross-unit support and progressed the investment.

That experience reinforced something I have encountered repeatedly in leadership:

Stakeholder alignment doesn't begin by convincing people of your position. It begins by understanding theirs.

Leading Beyond Authority

- Influence, Stakeholder Management, and Organizational Impact

Series 3/6 : Managing Stakeholders Without Losing Yourself

As leaders grow in responsibility, something interesting happens.

They become accountable for increasingly larger outcomes while having direct authority over a smaller proportion of the people required to deliver them.

Success begins to depend on peers, senior leaders, other functions, specialists, customers, partners and people several levels removed from their own reporting line.

The organization chart may tell us who reports to whom.

But it rarely tells us who can enable, influence, delay or derail an important outcome.

That is why stakeholder leadership becomes increasingly important as we move into senior roles.

Yet the phrase stakeholder management can make some leaders uncomfortable.

For technically oriented leaders in particular, it can sound suspiciously like organizational politics:

Do I need to keep everyone happy?

Do I need to say different things to different people?

Do I have to become more political to progress?

I don't believe effective stakeholder leadership requires any of these.

It requires something much more fundamental:

Understanding different perspectives well enough to create alignment without compromising your own values.

Stakeholders Are Not Obstacles to Be Managed

One of the easiest mistakes we can make is to label someone a "difficult stakeholder" simply because they don't immediately support our proposal.

But disagreement often looks very different when viewed from the other person's position.

Consider my operational example.

The manager concerned about process safety wasn't resisting a growth opportunity. He was fulfilling his accountability for safe operations.

The manager reluctant to add shutdown scope wasn't being uncooperative. He was protecting execution certainty after the scope had already been frozen.

Once we understand this, the leadership question changes.

Instead of asking:

"How do I convince them?"

we begin asking:

"What does this decision look like from where they sit?"

That small shift can transform a stakeholder conversation.

It moves us from persuasion to curiosity.

From defending our position to understanding interests.

And from winning an argument to creating an outcome people can support.

Managing Upwards, Sideways and Downwards

Stakeholder leadership also requires us to recognize that different relationships require different forms of engagement.

Managing upwards

Your senior leaders usually need clarity rather than detail.

They want to understand the issue, the implications, the risks, the trade-offs and where their intervention or decision is required.

Managing upwards therefore isn't about pleasing your boss. It is about helping them make better decisions.

Sometimes that also means respectfully challenging their assumptions.

Managing sideways

Peers are often where influence is tested most.

You cannot simply instruct another functional leader to change priorities because your project is important.

They have their own objectives, constraints and commitments.

Influencing sideways requires reciprocity, credibility and an understanding of what success looks like for both sides.

The question becomes:

"How do we make this work for the larger outcome rather than simply for my function?"

Managing downwards

Authority may be greater here, but that doesn't make stakeholder leadership less important.

People need context, not merely instructions.

They need to understand why something matters, what success looks like and where they have room to contribute.

Authority can create compliance.

Understanding creates ownership.

The engagement style may change across these relationships.

Your values shouldn't.

Influence Without Politics

There is an important distinction between being organizationally aware and being political.

Politics asks:

"How do I position myself?"

Stakeholder leadership asks:

"How do I understand the system well enough to move an important outcome forward?"

Knowing who influences a decision isn't political.

Building relationships before you need them isn't political.

Understanding someone's priorities isn't manipulation.

Engaging decision-makers early isn't bypassing process.

When done transparently and with the organization's interests at heart, these are simply responsible leadership behaviours.

Problems arise when influence becomes self-serving—when information is selectively withheld, relationships are cultivated only for personal advantage, or people hear different versions of the truth depending on their position.

That isn't stakeholder leadership.

That's politics.

The difference lies largely in intent.

Authenticity Does Not Mean Saying Everything Exactly as You Think It

There is another tension leaders frequently encounter.

"If I adapt my message to different stakeholders, am I being inauthentic?"

I don't believe so.

Authenticity is sometimes confused with unfiltered expression.

"This is what I think, so I should simply say it."

But leadership communication isn't only about what we want to say.

It is also about what another person needs to understand.

You might explain an investment differently to a Finance Director than to an Operations Manager.

Finance may need to understand return, capital exposure and financial risk.

Operations may need to understand reliability, workload and execution implications.

The message has been adapted.

The underlying truth hasn't.

This is where diplomacy becomes important.

Authenticity is being consistent in your values. Diplomacy is being thoughtful in how you express them.

Diplomacy doesn't require leaders to dilute what they believe.

It requires them to communicate their perspective in a way that others can hear, consider and engage with.

That is not a compromise of authenticity.

It is leadership maturity.

From Stakeholder Management to Stakeholder Alignment

Perhaps we should stop thinking about stakeholder management altogether.

People don't particularly enjoy being "managed."

What leaders really need to create is stakeholder alignment.

Alignment doesn't mean everyone agrees.

In complex organizations, that is neither realistic nor necessarily desirable.

Different functions should bring different perspectives.

Operations should challenge execution risk.

Finance should challenge economics.

Safety should challenge risk exposure.

Projects should challenge feasibility and schedule.

Healthy organizations need those tensions.

Leadership is about helping people work through those differences without allowing functional priorities to overwhelm the enterprise objective.

Sometimes the result will be consensus.

Sometimes it won't.

But stakeholders can still understand the trade-offs, know that their concerns were heard and support a decision even when it isn't their preferred option.

That is alignment.

A Simple Stakeholder Lens

Before your next important initiative, pause and consider four questions:

Understand

What matters to this stakeholder?

What pressures, priorities or risks are they managing?

Align

Where do our interests intersect?

What shared outcome can we build around?

Engage

What conversation needs to happen—and when?

Don't wait until the final proposal to discover objections that could have been surfaced earlier.

Influence

How can we move the outcome forward together?

Influence becomes much easier when people feel they helped shape the solution rather than being asked to endorse someone else's answer.

Understand → Align → Engage → Influence

Simple questions.

But they can fundamentally change how we navigate complex stakeholder environments.

A Reflection for Leaders

Think about an important initiative you are currently trying to move forward.

Who are the stakeholders whose support matters?

Whose concerns have you genuinely understood?

Who have you labelled "difficult" without fully appreciating what they are accountable for?

Are you adapting your communication—or compromising your authenticity?

And perhaps most importantly:

Are you trying to win stakeholders over to your solution, or are you creating an outcome they can genuinely help shape?

The higher we rise in leadership, the less success depends on having all the answers ourselves.

It increasingly depends on our ability to bring different perspectives together around an outcome worth pursuing.

Effective stakeholder leadership isn't measured by how many people agree with us.

It is measured by our ability to move important outcomes forward while preserving trust, relationships and integrity.

A COOL RESOURCE - The Stakeholder Influence Map

Leadership outcomes rarely depend on one person alone. The challenge is knowing who matters, what matters to them, and how best to engage them—without becoming political or compromising your authenticity.

The Stakeholder Influence Map is a practical tool to help you map key stakeholders based on their influence and interest, understand their priorities and concerns, and identify where your interests intersect.

Using the simple Understand → Align → Engage → Influence lens, you can turn stakeholder awareness into purposeful conversations and stronger alignment.

👉 Download The Stakeholder Influence Map and use it before an important project, change initiative, or cross-functional decision to focus your leadership energy where it matters most.

Because stakeholder alignment begins not by convincing others of your position, but by understanding theirs.

In our Next Edition - The Conversations Leaders Avoid

Some of the most important leadership conversations are also the easiest to postpone.

Giving difficult feedback. Addressing poor performance. Working through conflict. Challenging a decision you disagree with. Speaking truth to someone with greater authority.

Avoiding these conversations may preserve comfort in the short term—but unresolved issues rarely disappear. They usually become harder to address later.

In the next edition, we'll explore what makes difficult conversations difficult, how leaders can approach them with greater courage and clarity, and why being direct doesn't require sacrificing empathy or respect.

Because courageous leadership isn't about being comfortable with conflict. It's about being willing to have the conversation that the situation requires.

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