July 2026

The Leadership Lens - Edition 13
Sharpen your view, elevate your impact—one edition at a time.

 

The Day My Title Was Not Enough

I still remember my first experience after being promoted to Team Leader.

Like many newly promoted managers, I carried an unspoken assumption: because people reported to me, they would naturally follow my instructions.

Reality turned out to be very different.

I quickly discovered that when you are leading a team of experienced professionals - people who can think independently and bring years of expertise to the table, formal authority counts for very little.

Titles may secure compliance. They rarely create commitment.

What my team needed was not instructions. They needed clarity about the problems we were trying to solve, why those problems mattered, and how their contributions connected to the bigger picture. My role was not to direct every action but to bring people onto the same plane of understanding.

Years later, while serving as the Commissioning and Startup Manager for a new LPG unit, I experienced an even deeper lesson.

My team had developed a methodology for cleaning, flushing, drying and inerting piping systems during pre-commissioning. For our activities to proceed, complete piping loops had to be mechanically finished and handed over.

However, the Project Mechanical Engineer had a different approach. He planned to hand over piping loops in smaller sections, allowing his team to continue demonstrating mechanical progress.

From his perspective, the plan made perfect sense.

From ours, it made pre-commissioning almost impossible.

My first reaction was frustration.

But instead of escalating the issue, I decided to sit down with him to understand his concerns. I listened to the pressures he was facing, the metrics he was being measured against, and why he believed his approach was appropriate. I then shared our team's challenges and explained why complete loops were essential for us to make meaningful progress.

That conversation changed everything.

Together, we aligned on a solution that worked for both teams.

The experience taught me a lesson that has stayed with me throughout my leadership journey:

Influencing people - whether they report to you or not - begins with listening, understanding their perspective, communicating your own, and working towards a win-win outcome.

Leadership, I discovered, is far less about authority and far more about influence.

 

Leading Beyond Authority

- Influence, Stakeholder Management and Organizational Impact

Leadership becomes increasingly complex as we move up the organization. Technical expertise and formal authority, while important, are rarely sufficient to create lasting impact. The ability to influence without authority, build trust across boundaries, navigate stakeholders, and align people around common goals often distinguishes effective leaders from exceptional ones.

In this new six-part series, Leading Beyond Authority, we will explore the often-unspoken leadership capabilities that enable leaders to create organizational impact beyond their job title. Through practical insights, coaching stories, reflective questions, and actionable tools, this series aims to help you expand your influence, strengthen relationships, and lead more effectively in complex environments.

Series 1/6: The Shift from Managing to Influencing

Why Authority Alone Is No Longer Enough

Leadership becomes increasingly complex as we move up the organization.

Early in our careers, success is often driven by technical expertise, individual contribution, and problem-solving capability. But as we move into leadership roles, something fundamental changes.

Our success becomes increasingly dependent on people - people we lead, people we collaborate with, and people over whom we may have no formal authority at all.

This is where many leaders discover an uncomfortable truth:

Titles may give us authority. They do not automatically give us influence.

And in today's organizations, influence is often the true currency of leadership.

The Leadership Equation Changes as You Rise

Most leaders are promoted because they are good at what they do.

They deliver results. They solve problems. They possess deep technical expertise. Their organizations recognize their contribution and reward them with larger responsibilities.

Then something interesting happens.

The very skills that helped them succeed earlier begin to deliver diminishing returns.

The higher leaders rise, the less their personal expertise alone determines success.

Instead, success increasingly depends on their ability to:

  • align people around a common purpose,
  • influence decisions across functions,
  • navigate competing priorities,
  • build trust and credibility,
  • and create commitment rather than compliance.

Leadership is no longer about doing the work yourself.

It becomes about enabling others to do their best work.

And that requires influence.

Why Authority Stops Being Enough

Formal authority certainly has its place.

Organizations need clarity regarding accountability, decision rights, and responsibilities.

Authority can secure:

  • compliance,
  • task execution,
  • and short-term results.

However, authority alone rarely creates:

  • ownership,
  • commitment,
  • discretionary effort,
  • innovation,
  • or sustained engagement.

People may comply because they have to.

They commit because they choose to.

And commitment cannot be mandated.

It must be influenced.

Great leaders understand that influencing minds often precedes influencing actions.

Understanding Informal Power

One of the most important leadership lessons is recognizing that organizational influence does not always reside within the organizational chart.

Every organization contains informal networks of influence.

These individuals may include:

  • respected technical experts,
  • long-tenured employees,
  • trusted administrative professionals,
  • informal opinion leaders,
  • or experienced frontline operators.

They may not occupy senior positions, yet their ability to shape opinions, build consensus, and influence decisions can be substantial.

Ignoring informal influence often creates unnecessary resistance.

Understanding and engaging these networks often accelerates execution.

The most effective leaders pay attention not only to formal authority but also to informal power.

Influence Versus Control

Leaders often unknowingly approach challenges from a control mindset.

Control asks:

"How do I make people do this?"

Influence asks:

"How do I help people understand why this matters?"

Control relies heavily on position.

Influence relies on relationships, credibility, trust, and shared purpose.

Control may deliver compliance.

Influence creates commitment.

In today's complex, cross-functional organizations, commitment almost always outperforms compliance.

Four Foundations of Influence

Over the years, I have found that leadership influence rests on four foundations.

1. Credibility

People are more likely to follow leaders they trust and respect.

Competence matters.

So do integrity and consistency.

2. Relationships

Influence is rarely built during moments of crisis.

It is built through everyday interactions, conversations, and acts of support long before influence is needed.

3. Understanding Interests

Every stakeholder has pressures, priorities, and concerns.

Influence begins by understanding what matters to the other person, not only what matters to us.

4. Organizational Awareness

Leaders who understand how decisions are truly made within their organizations are often significantly more effective at creating alignment and driving change.

A Real Coaching Moment

A senior leader I coached was widely respected for his technical expertise. Throughout his career, he had built a reputation for solving complex problems quickly and delivering results consistently.

However, after moving into a broader leadership role, he found himself increasingly frustrated.

Cross-functional initiatives were moving slowly. Commitments were missed. Decisions seemed to take far longer than he expected.

During one coaching session, he said with visible frustration:

"Sri, I don't understand. The solution is obvious. Why can't people simply execute?"

As we explored the situation further, an interesting pattern emerged.

The leader had invested significant time developing technically sound solutions. What he had invested far less time in was bringing stakeholders along on the journey.

Many stakeholders had not been involved early enough. Some had concerns that had never been surfaced. Others did not fully understand the rationale behind the proposed changes. A few felt the solutions had been developed for them rather than with them.

The challenge was not the quality of the solution.

The challenge was the absence of alignment.

Over the following months, he deliberately changed his approach. He started engaging stakeholders earlier, asking more questions, listening to concerns, and investing time in understanding competing priorities before proposing solutions.

The result was remarkable.

Execution accelerated—not because the solutions changed significantly, but because people felt heard, involved, and committed.

His biggest leadership insight?

Influence is not built by having the best answers. It is built by listening, engaging stakeholders early, and creating shared ownership of the solution.

A Gentle Truth

Many managers secretly believe their promotion came with an invisible superpower:

"Because I said so."

Unfortunately, leadership software does not include this feature.

The higher you rise, the fewer people are impressed by your title, and the more people are influenced by how you treat them.

Your organizational chart may show who reports to you.

It rarely shows who actually influences everyone else.

Closing Reflections

As leaders, perhaps it is worth pausing to reflect:

  • Where am I relying too heavily on authority?
  • Which stakeholders most influence my success?
  • Whose trust do I need to strengthen?
  • What relationships am I neglecting?
  • How can I create more commitment rather than compliance?

Because leadership beyond authority is not about controlling people.

It is about creating the conditions where people willingly choose to contribute, collaborate, and commit.

And in a world where organizations are becoming increasingly interconnected, influence may well be the most important leadership capability we develop.

 

A COOL RESOURCE - The Influence Circle Canvas

Leadership effectiveness is rarely determined by the people who report to us alone. More often, it is shaped by the broader network of stakeholders we must influence - peers, cross-functional partners, senior leaders, and informal influencers across the organization.

The Influence Circle Canvas is designed to help you map the relationships that determine your leadership success. It encourages you to look beyond the organizational chart and identify who truly influences outcomes, understand what matters to them, assess the strength of your relationships, and intentionally invest in building trust and alignment.

Whether you are leading a team, driving change, or navigating a complex initiative, this practical tool will help you shift from relying on authority to leading through influence.

👉 Download the Influence Circle Canvas and begin building the relationships that create lasting leadership impact.

 

In our Next Edition - Building Trust Before You Need It

Influence begins long before difficult conversations, major projects, or moments of crisis. It begins with trust.

In the next edition, we'll explore why trust is the true currency of leadership influence, how leaders intentionally build trust capital, and why many leadership challenges can be traced back to trust that was never established or was quietly withdrawn.

Because when trust is high, influence flows naturally. When trust is low, even authority struggles.

Stay tuned as we explore how great leaders build trust before they need it.

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